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In the days after Christmas, many of us begin to put things away. Decorations come down. The house gets cleaned. We prepare for what’s next. It’s understandable. But it also raises a quiet question worth sitting with: what might our hurry to move on be revealing about who—or what—rules our hearts?
For a few more days the Church continues to linger at the manger, not rushing past the mystery, not yet arriving at Epiphany, still holding space for what has come into the world.
That pause matters.
At Christmas, we proclaim that a child has been born. Angels announce it. Shepherds hurry toward it. A quiet town becomes the center of the world’s attention. But beneath the tenderness of the scene is a far more unsettling claim. This child is not only born. He is born King.
For centuries, Israel had been waiting for such a King. The prophets spoke of a ruler from the line of David, one who would shepherd God’s people with justice and faithfulness. Isaiah foretold a child upon whose shoulders authority would rest. Micah pointed to Bethlehem as the unlikely birthplace of a ruler whose origins were from of old. God’s answer to the world’s brokenness would come through a King.
And yet, when the King finally arrived, almost no one recognized Him.
He came without armies, without power, without a throne that looked anything like what had been imagined. He entered the world in humility, wrapped not in royal garments but in cloth, laid not in a palace but in a manger. Still, the titles spoken over Him leave no room for doubt. He is Emmanuel, God with us. He is Savior. He is Lord.
The New Testament does not soften this claim. 1 Timothy 6:15 tells us that Jesus is the King of Kings and Lord of Lords. His reign is not limited by borders or time. It does not rise and fall like earthly powers. His kingdom is eternal. But Scripture also makes something else clear. While His kingship is universal, it is also deeply personal.
A King does not merely exist. A King reigns.
And that brings the Christmas story very close to home.
At the time of Jesus’ birth, there was no room for Him in the inn. The question we must now wrestle with, standing between Christmas and a new year, is whether there is room for Him in our hearts. Not simply room to visit. Not space left over after other priorities are settled. But room to reign.
I must attest that there are areas of my life that I have not yet given the Lord full reign. I still have areas where I prefer control, comfort, or familiarity over surrender. I see those places more clearly now than I once did, and as a new year approaches, I know I am being invited to surrender these areas too. Do you see some things in your life that you are being invited to surrender?
Many of us are quite willing to welcome Christ into certain areas of life: worship, prayer, generosity, or service. These feel appropriate and familiar. But there are other places we guard more carefully. Decisions we prefer to control. Habits we excuse. Fears we manage on our own. Wounds we keep protected. Areas where we acknowledge Christ’s presence but quietly resist His authority.
Scripture reminds us that no one can serve two masters. Wherever Christ is not King, something else inevitably sits on the throne: control, comfort, success, fear, resentment, or pride. None of these rule gently. None of them deliver the freedom they promise.
In just a few days, we will mark Epiphany, the moment when the Magi arrive and lay their gifts before the newborn King. Gold for His royalty, frankincense for His divinity, myrrh foreshadowing sacrifice. As that moment approaches, it invites a quieter question for each of us as a new year draws near. What gifts will we place before the King? What parts of our lives are we willing to surrender? What spaces are we finally ready to open?
The wonder of Christmas is not only that God became human, but that the King chose a path of love rather than force. He does not seize authority. He invites trust. His reign is established not by domination, but by self-giving love.
As one year ends and another begins, we find ourselves in this in-between space, after Christmas, before Epiphany, looking back and looking ahead. The invitation is simple, but not easy. Is Christ King over all of life, or only the parts we are comfortable offering?
A King is born. And the kingdom He longs to establish does not begin in Bethlehem alone. It begins wherever hearts are willing to say, “Reign here too.”
Heavenly Father, as I stand between the joy of Christmas and the beginning of a new year, help me to receive Your Son not only as Savior, but as King. Reveal the places in my life where I still resist His rule and give me the grace to open every part of my heart to His gentle reign. As I step into the days ahead, may His kingship bring freedom, healing, and peace. Amen.
AMDG
AMDG is a Latin abbreviation for “Ad Majorem Dei Gloriam,” which means “For the Greater Glory of God.”
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Great to hear your voice and the perfect message for this week. Bless you and your family, Brian! And Happy New Year in 2026.
Tyson
Thanks for your post. I hope you and your family also have a Blessed and Peace filled New Year!
Brian
Brian, I always look forward to reading your reflections. This reflection ties perfectly into a book we are reading in our weekly book club group, called Drop the Rock.😇 Wishing you and Mary Beth a joyous and peaceful New Year. We look forward to seeing you on January 18th at the Plymouth Ultreya!
Mary
We are looking forward to the retreat on January 17th and the Ultreya on January 18th . See you soon!
Brian
Brian, I just wanted to share a note on, “AMDG is a Latin abbreviation for “Ad Majorem Dei Gloriam,” which means “For the Greater Glory of God.”
That was the motto of St. Anselms College
Rocky, I remember my 4th grade nun, who had a hand crafted microphone at the front of class. The letters ‘AMDG’ were on the mike. We students would do our announcements and reports from there, always starting, “Station AMDG. Everything for the greater glory of God.”
Gloria
Thank you for your post.
Brian
Rocky
Thank you for your post.
Brian
Your message is very meaningful to me. It coincides with my recent reconciliation where the Priest introduced me to the Litany of Trust. What a powerful prayer. Your message is closely related and perfect timing between Christmas day and Epiphany. Thanks as always.
Stacie
God’s timing is perfect.
Brian
Happy New Year to you and your beautiful family. Love getting up on Tuesdays to your wonderful words of inspiration.
Pat
I am blessed to know that others enjoy and benefit from what I write. All praise to the Holy Spirit who never fails to show up and inspire.
Brian
I appreciate your very thoughtful messages. Happy, Blessed New Year!
Cliff
Thank You! Have a Blessed New Year!
Brian
Hello Brian, Merry Christmas to you and Mary Beth and all your family.
What a beautiful writing, is there room in our life/heart for Christ to reign as king? Much to consider there, especially areas difficult to let go of.
Chuckle, like too many chefs in the kitchen, we/I may have too (little) kings in my life which crowd the Messiah King.