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Have you ever noticed how easily your mind drifts away from the present moment? One minute we’re replaying something that happened years ago, and the next we’re worrying about something that hasn’t even happened yet. Before we know it, the only place we’re not living is right here, right now. I invite you to slow down for a moment and consider what might be slipping past unnoticed.
There’s a powerful line from the song I’ll Never Love This Way Again, made famous by Dionne Warwick, that says, A fool will lose tomorrow reaching back for yesterday. That one sentence captures something we all struggle with. We reach backward into yesterday as if we could change it, while at the same time losing the very moment we’ve been given today.
This begs the question, where is our life actually being lived?
Jesus gives us a clear and gentle answer. Do not worry about tomorrow; tomorrow will take care of itself. Sufficient for a day is its own evil (Matthew 6:34). Today is where life happens. This moment is where God meets us.
Let me explain. Yesterday is fixed. No amount of regret, guilt, or rethinking can change a single thing that has already happened. And yet, how often do we allow yesterday to define us? We replay conversations, relive failures, and hold onto things that God has already forgiven.
At the same time, tomorrow is uncertain. We plan for it and prepare for it, but we do not control it. Still, we spend so much energy worrying about what might happen, what could go wrong, or how things will turn out.
And in doing so, we quietly miss today.
In writing today’s message, my mind flashed back to a poem I wrote in 2019. If you’d like to read it, click here.
Think about this. The only place we can love someone is today. The only place we can forgive is today. The only place we can encounter Christ is today. God’s grace is not being offered to us in yesterday, and it has not yet been given for tomorrow. God’s grace is being given right now.
This is why so many of us feel stuck. We are trying to live in places where grace is not being offered. We live in yesterday’s regret or tomorrow’s anxiety, instead of today’s opportunity to respond to God.
Scripture reminds us, This is the day the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it (Psalm 118:24). Not yesterday, not tomorrow, but this day.
We might ask ourselves, what am I missing right now because my mind is somewhere else? Are we missing the quiet presence of God? Are we missing the chance to truly be present to our spouse, our family, or a friend? Are we missing the small invitations that God places in front of us each day?
The enemy would love nothing more than to keep us trapped in regret or distracted by fear, because both pull us away from the present moment, and the present moment is the only place where transformation actually happens.
DON’T MISS TODAY is a song I wrote that captures the importance of living in the present. Click below to listen and enjoy.
This doesn’t mean we ignore the past or refuse to plan for the future. The past can teach us and the future can guide us, but neither is where we are called to live. We are called to live here, in this moment, where God is already present, already working, already inviting us closer.
So perhaps today we try something simple. When our thoughts drift backward into regret, we gently bring them back. When our thoughts rush forward into worry, we gently bring them back. And we ask, Lord, where are You in this moment?
That is where life is happening. That is where grace is flowing. That is where we become the door through which others can encounter Christ.
Heavenly Father, I so often find myself living anywhere but the present moment, holding onto what I cannot change and worrying about what has not yet come. Help me to trust that Your grace is sufficient for today. Teach me to release my past into Your mercy and my future into Your providence, so that I may fully live in the gift of this moment. Open my eyes to see You here, right now, and give me the courage to respond to Your presence with love. Amen.
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AMDG
AMDG is a Latin abbreviation for “Ad Majorem Dei Gloriam,” which means “For the Greater Glory of God.”
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Please take a moment to share your thoughts about today’s message below.
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You just don’t stop, every week you motivate me to be a better person! The music you are creating is beautiful! I can’t tell you how many times I’ve listened to Don’t Miss Today while doing my daily chores! I was honored to have spent a Saturday Retreat with you and your wife when you visited my parish. Thank you for the gift of today and with each letter, Eileen
“Peaceful Warrior” is a fantastic movie about living in the now. The story is based on a true story of Dan Millman, a gymnast who excelled in the still rings, with Nick Nolte. It never ceases to ground me to the present and to calm my worries about the future and dispel the regrets/guilt of yesterdays.
Dr McKinney, I was curious about your movie suggestion. I rented it from Fandango. Thank you, it was well worth the money spent and such a beautiful story. I intend to read the book and learn more about Dan Millman. There is a wealth of information about him and to learn more on the internet. Thank for for the inspiration! Eileen
I AM, present tense
As always, thank you for your insightful thoughts. Today’s especially struck home. When my daughter, Sarah (now 47) was just an infant, I would give her the middle-of-the-night bottle sitting in an overstuffed chair that my father made in upholstery school as part of his GI bill. I knew she was our last (of four daughters- – what came to be known as the “wall of sisters”). I often sang to her “I Know I’ll Never Love This Way Again”. Thank you for the reminder. Today Aldo happens to be the 62nd anniversary of my father’s death. Lots to remember. Thank you for keeping me grounded in the present!
Very powerful message that I really need to pay attention to. Thanks Brian
Jim
We all need to heed this message! Thanks for your post.
Brian