Adopted Children of God
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I was 8 years old. Our family of four was sitting at the dinner table. My older brother Mike was 10. As my mom passed the meat and potatoes she nonchalantly stated, “By the way boys, you are adopted.” That was how we found out. It was to become the subject that was almost never discussed for many more years. My father died at 59 and my mother died at age 81. They never told us about our biological parents. As far as they were concerned, we were their children, period, end of discussion. In a similar fashion, God sees us as His children. We are His adopted sons and daughters. I invite you to read more………
Most parents give birth to their children; some parents are given the opportunity to choose theirs. That is what happens through adoption. Long before our biological conception, our Heavenly Father had already set in motion His plans to adopt us. In other words, you and I were chosen by God. Take a minute to truly let that reality sink in.
Galatians 4:4-7 states this: “But when the fullness of time had come, God sent his Son, born of a woman, born under the law, to ransom those under the law, so that we might receive adoption. As proof that you are children, God sent the spirit of his Son into our hearts, crying out, “Abba, Father!” So you are no longer a slave but a child, and if a child then also an heir, through God.”
I was blessed to grow up in a happy family. My brother and I had loving, caring and supportive parents. Discovering at age 8 that I was adopted changed nothing. Betty and Jim were the only parents I knew. I am their son, and they are my mom and dad and Mike is my brother.
After my wife and I started our own family and during those times when my wife was expecting, my mother would sometimes open up to my wife about the fact that my brother and I were adopted. She was careful to protect “her boys” as she always called us, from this topic. She was unable to have children as a result of cancer. She had a hysterectomy at a very young age. The bottom line is this, my brother and I grew up knowing little to nothing about our biological parents and we were just fine with that. We were loved and cared for. We were made to feel chosen and special. Nothing else mattered.
Romans 8:14-17 tells us that those who are led by the Spirit of God are children of God. Even though we are children through adoption, we are nonetheless heirs of God. Adopted children through the legal process of adoption become the children of their adopted parents. They become heirs to their parents in the same way as naturally born children do.
The readings during the Season of Advent often remind us of our status as adopted children of God. This past week we read from Ephesians 1:3-6. It told us that God, who has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing, chose us before the foundation of the world, and in love, he destined us for adoption to himself through Jesus Christ. This is important. We are about to celebrate Jesus’ birth on Christmas Day. Since it is through Jesus that we become adopted children of God, in a sense, we can think of Christmas, as our birthday too.
We know that in today’s world adoptions can be expensive. Our adoption was expensive too. It was paid for with the blood of Christ on the cross. Adoption, as I stated above, grants the child with certain legal rights.
Far more important than legal rights, adopted children also receive acceptance in a new home, and the love of new parents. As a result of this love being poured out on them, adopted children develop a deep and lasting personal and spiritual bond to their new parents. This personal bond allows these children to call their parents mommy and daddy.
At Father’s Day this year, my children gave me the gift of Ancestry.com. Much to their surprise and mine, through DNA I soon discovered the identity of my biological parents. They are now both deceased. I, for the first time, now have pictures of my biological family. I have had the chance to meet my never before known siblings. They have welcomed me with kindness and love. As nice as all of this is however, this new family can never break the deep family bond that I was blessed with through my adoption. My brother Mike will always be my brother. Jim and Betty will forever be my parents.
Just as I am now blessed to have two families, my adopted and my biological one, you also have two families. You have your biological family, and you are also an adopted son or daughter of our Heavenly Father. That deep bond can never be broken. God’s love for you is unconditional.
With these remaining few weeks of Advent still in front of us, and as we approach Christmas, I want to make this suggestion. From now until Christmas pray over this question: “What does it mean to you to be an adopted child of God?” Being adopted has meant everything to me!
Heavenly Father, you choose me before time began and through Jesus you destined me to become your heir. Help me always to respond to Your love as a truly grateful child. Amen!
I want to take this opportunity to thank everyone who attended the retreat that I gave on December 1st at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Port Matilda, PA. I also want to thank Fr. John for inviting me to speak to the youth at St. Peter and Paul Catholic Church in Philipsburg, PA, on December 2nd, and finally I want to thank the men who attended the men’s retreat that I gave at St. Margaret of Scotland Catholic Church in Maggie Valley, NC on December 8th. It was a real blessing to be with all of you.
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Brian,I was so blessed to read your message this morning. A fresh reminder that we have been chosen by God the Father and what Love He has for His children. I am blessed to have gotten to know you,but more blessed to know that we are brother and sister in the Lord,God Bless you and your family!!!
Thank you for your post. May the Lord be with you and bless you and your family now and always!
Brian: Our best friends are Fred and JoAnn. Fred is so proud of you and it meant so much to him to be reunited with his siblings. God bless you in your ministry. We are all brothers and sisters in Christ. I thank God you and Fred were adopted by such good parents.
It was a real blessing to become acquainted with Fred and JoAnn! I was delighted that God allowed us to finally meet. And as you say we are all brothers and sisters in Christ.
Brian, thank you for openly sharing your thoughts and heart with us about adoption. It’s a beautiful thing!
We have 2 children we have adopted and I will be sharing this article with them.
What a blessing to be adopted into the family of God. Thank you my brother in Christ Jesus.
Thanks for your post. Yes it is a blessing to adopted in God’s family. May God’s blessings be with your entire family.
I have often pondered on this gift of “being adopted” and have been overwhelmed in
emotion with the fact that we are adopted sons and daughters of God. But it is a
subject rarely spoken of from the pulpit. Brian, your words pierce the heart in a most
profoundly delightful way that made me, once again, cry out “Abba Father”, continue
to help me grow in understanding just how much God loves ME, how special our
relationship is, so that I can grow in my connection with my brothers and sisters in Christ. If I do that, I will love more deeply, and care more about meeting
their needs. You brought this to the surface for me, in such a beautiful way. I love how the Holy Spirit inspires you with thoughts and words!!
Thanks for your kind post. It blesses me to know the Holy Spirit touched you through these written words. May you always know you are child of God and and heir to His Kingdom.
After reading this I realized you actually have three families. Your adopted parents, your biological parents, and your family of GOD. You are more fortunate than you think. You also have the family that you reach out to with the Open Door. Thanks for this one. It makes me understand how lucky and blessed I am to have had the parents I was blessed with. Thank you.
This message really made me smile! Thanks!