Circumcised Only?

At some point during childhood kids often form little clubs. Boys form boys clubs to keep the girls out because “girls aren’t strong enough” and girls form girls clubs to keep the boys out because “boys have cooties.” Teens often form cliques. Many times these cliques can become a source of hurtfulness. Kids who want to be a part of the in-group are kept out.

You would naturally hope that as we mature into adulthood we would grow away from these types of cliques, but instead they seem to multiply and become even more exclusive. Doesn’t this fly in the face of God’s call to Christian community and His charge to have a loving heart for all people?

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If we go back to the time of the Apostles we see this same issue. (see Acts 15:1-12) Some of the followers of Jesus wanted to keep the message of the Savior exclusively for the Jews. They wanted to maintain the “club” rules. Some wanted to keep the Gentiles out of the “clique” while others were willing to allow them to join the “club,” but only after the ceremonial circumcision. “Unless you are circumcised according to the Mosaic practice, you cannot be saved.” (Talk about a difficult job evangelizing!)

Jesus routinely crossed barriers. The Jews were not to associate with the Samaritans, yet Jesus interacted with the woman at the well. A good Jew knew to keep his/her distance from the lepers, yet Jesus touched and healed them. Jesus had an inclusive message. He came to save all who believed in Him.

Today this issue seems worse than ever as our social groups seem to be more exclusive. Republicans and Democrats don’t even want to talk to each other. Some Catholics and Protestants won’t associate with each other. Heterosexuals and homosexuals often aren’t welcoming to each other. People of different skin colors can’t seem to get along. Even some well-meaning Christian churches have rules of membership which attempt to screen out the sinners and reserve membership for only good Christians. (As if that is possible.)

Today countries around the world seem more focused on keeping people out than welcoming people in. What happened to the attitude expressed in these words written by poet Emma Lazarus on the Statue of Liberty plaque: “Give me your tired, your poor, your huddled masses yearning to breathe free” and “send these, the homeless, tempest-tost to me?”

Have all human interactions become more about building walls rather than building bridges? What barriers would Jesus cross today?

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Now, what about us? What private cliques or clubs have we formed? There are many Christian movements that encourage their members to meet weekly in small Christian groups. The purpose of these gatherings are twofold. One is to foster deep friendship rooted in Jesus Christ. Ideally members of these groups gather each week to discuss their relationship with God. The second purpose is to support and encourage their members in their evangelical outreach to bring others to Christ. If you are in one of these groups, has your group become exclusive?

Occasionally our friendships become so close that we begin to forget about the second part. The intent of our groups was well founded (friendships rooted in Christ) but even these groups can inadvertently become exclusive cliques.  Can someone who has not yet experienced a 3 day weekend like Cursillo or Walk to Emmaus join your group? Does your group allow someone to join if they are of a different Christian Denomination? What would Jesus do?

The early Jewish converts to Christianity at first held onto their strongly held beliefs that all gentiles were “unclean.” Because of this belief they never associated with these people.  Jesus changed all of this. He came for all people. These early disciples had to let go of their old ways. They had to reach out to the gentiles. Circumcised or uncircumcised, Jesus died for all who would believe in Him.

Here is a list of questions that I need to keep asking myself. They are good questions for you or your groups to ponder as well. Do you still have some people that you see as unclean or unworthy to join your Christian group?   Are there some old barriers in your mind that you need to let go of?  Are some of our Christian groups simply homogeneous gatherings of likeminded people? Are we really reaching out?  Are our groups designed to be inviting or have our groups really become barriers to keep out the “other” people not like us? Are we reaching out or closing in? What forms of symbolic circumcision like restrictions are we putting on the shoulders of others who want to gain entrance to our groups/ministries/Christian gatherings or churches?

Let us ask God to give us a welcoming heart.

Dear Heavenly Father, please allow your Holy Spirit to find a dwelling place in my heart. Help me to always remain rooted in love.

rooted in love

Brian Pusateri

Brian Pusateri

Brian is a Christian author and speaker. Brian, a lifelong Catholic, felt his life was forever changed when God spoke to his heart while attending an eight day silent Christian retreat in November of 2011. Soon after that retreat Brian founded 4th Day Letters and Broken Door Ministries. With the God inspired message of mercy and unconditional love that was placed on his heart during that retreat, Brian has been impacting others all over the country and around the world with his weekly letters, his talks, and his all day Christian retreats. Brian’s life was again impacted in a very dramatic way when his eyesight suddenly became permanently impaired due to a diagnosis of Multiple Scleroses (MS) in June of 2014. This health challenge has only served to draw Brian closer to God and bolster the importance of this timely yet ageless message.
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9 Comments

  1. Mary Jane Glassgow on May 4, 2016 at 11:26 am

    Brian, I enjoyed your talk today, and I wanted to let you know that our Cursillo group here
    and our Ultreya group here, invites everyone to join us. It is a truly “Open Door” to the whole congregation—all are welcome.

    • Brian Pusateri Brian Pusateri on May 4, 2016 at 12:30 pm

      Mary Jane

      It is great that you have that openness with your group. May God bless you and all of the members of your group.

  2. Paul on May 4, 2016 at 5:53 am

    Thank you, Lord for those Christians that make the effort to show true Christian Love even though there human nature doesn’t want to, while the human nature will be sensed , the Christian Miracles still happen! Love grows and you develop a relationship with someone you never thought you would and Christian growth happens on both side of the relationship!! I love you and I want to be more like you Jesus even though it’s hard for me at times! Help us all Jesus!!!!!!

    • Brian Pusateri Brian Pusateri on May 4, 2016 at 6:07 am

      Paul:

      Thanks for posting. Love really is the key ingredient in all human interactions. The Bible tells us: “So faith, hope, love remain, these three; but the greatest of these is love“. 1 Corinthians 13:13

  3. John Remensnyder on May 3, 2016 at 12:41 pm

    Great letter Brian and so true. We all have our little “cliques”.

  4. Veronica on May 3, 2016 at 10:29 am

    I agree that we must open wide our arms to receive others, no matter how different their points of view or beliefs are from ours. However, I see with preoccupation that we, under the over used flag of tolerance (understood nowadays with the glasses of secularism and indifetentism), we may be welcoming people and forgeting that it is a work of mercy to help the sinner come out of their sinful ways. I’m not saying that we are saints or anything, but fraternal correction and showing the freedom from sin should be part of our apostolic work. Jesus did not come and say “let all the sinners come to me and let them remain in their sins.” He called us all of us sinners and told us “neither do I condemn you. Go and sin no more” (Jn 8:11). We must embrace all with Christian love, but our ultimate goal should be to help each other reach Heaven.

    • Brian Pusateri Brian Pusateri on May 3, 2016 at 11:12 am

      Veronica:
      Well stated. We must always recognize our own sinfulness and our need for mercy and forgiveness and then share the Salvation Story and tell other about the mercy that is available to them through Jesus Christ. You are so right “our ultimate goal should be to help each other reach Heaven”. I believe Christian love is the key.

  5. Bob Gray on May 3, 2016 at 5:41 am

    We need to extend that net out to include the homeless, the imprisoned, the intellectually-challenged, etc., but that would be for another letter. Then there are those with SSA, the divorced and remarried, etc. This letter brings these other groups to my mind. How do we make ourselves open to those not like us? Thanks, Brian.

    • Brian Pusateri Brian Pusateri on May 3, 2016 at 5:46 am

      Bob:

      As we know, all people were created in the image and likeness of God. Christ came to save all who would believe in Him. Yes……we have a lot of work to do, and many barriers to cross.

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