Father or Task Master, Which Is It?

Through my work in this ministry, I have encountered many Christians who seem to live in the fear of God’s wrath. They far too often see God as a harsh task master, ready to punish them for their every mistake. With each subsequent sin, they fear their salvation is in jeopardy. This seems to me to be a far cry from the relationship Jesus calls us to have with His father. Jesus tells us that He is our brother and God is our Abba Father. So who is God to you, a loving Father or a task master to be feared? I invite you to read more….

Abba is the Aramaic word for “father.” Jesus referred to His Father as Abba in Mark 14:36. In Rom 8:14-17, Paul tells us we are children and heirs of God. In Galatians 4:6-7 we read: “As proof that you are children, God sent the spirit of his Son into our hearts, crying out, “Abba, Father!” So you are no longer a slave but a child, and if a child then also an heir, through God.”

Despite having been clearly told by Jesus that God is our Abba Father and He is our brother, many people still fear God’s wrath. Luke tries to calm this fear in 11:11-13 when he tells us: “What father among you would hand his son a snake when he asks for a fish? Or hand him a scorpion when he asks for an egg? If you then, who are wicked, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will the Father in heaven give the holy Spirit to those who ask him?”

As Christians, we know God as Trinity. God is three persons in one God. Each person is God, yet each is distinct. Love is the foundation of the Trinity. Each person of the Trinity is in a full loving unity with the other persons. Love unites the Trinity. The Trinity is Love. God therefore is Love, and He loves us as His children.

Our God is not a God who hates those who disobey Him. Our God does not hate us at one moment and love us at another according to our actions. As Christians, we believe in a God of UNCONDITIONAL LOVE! Our actions and our sins do not cause God to love us less.

God is also a God of justice; however, God’s justice is so intertwined with his unconditional love that it challenges everything we understand about justice. God knew we would sin, even before we were born. God’s unique form of justice is described in Romans 5:8 when Paul states: “But God proves his love for us in that while we were still sinners Christ died for us.” We therefore are called to a loving and familial relationship with our Abba Father. We are not called to a fear-based relationship with God.  We need only repent and believe in Jesus.

How do you, as a Christian, approach your relationship with God? Is God a task master ready to smite you each time you fall short of His commandments or every time you sin? Do you see his love for you as conditional? Does He love you when you are “good” and hate you when you are “bad?” So allow me to ask you again, who is God to you, a loving Father, or task master to be feared?

Heavenly Father, I know you love me. I also know that I fall short of your love far too often. Help me not to live in fear, but rather to trust in your care for me. When I fall short, please correct me with fatherly kindness and patience. I ask this in the name of Jesus Christ, amen.

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Brian Pusateri
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  1. Joanne Fairchld on May 9, 2018 at 8:25 am

    The concept of a loving Father is very difficult for believers who suffered from an abusive biological father. It requires strong faith that has to take each thought of task master under control and renew your mind constantly with God’s promises in scripture. It also helps when we as believers take every opportunity in each day to uplift those around us (even our family who we live with daily) with a compliment. I tell my husband that words are free and it does not matter that he told me the same compliment yesterday. Love never ends, so say something again, each day, and it becomes an overriding habit of acknowledging to ourselves and to others, how much God has blessed our lives with love of those around us, including strangers in our day.
    Thanks Brian. You are definitely one of those blessings!

    • Brian Pusateri on May 9, 2018 at 10:20 am


      Thank you for your beautiful witness. I am glad you shattered your thoughts here. May God’s blessings be with you.


  2. Patty McConnell on May 8, 2018 at 11:51 pm

    This is a message people want to believe with all their hearts. The Holy Spirit changed my heart and I DO believe I am precious and deeply loved by God the Father, Son and Holy
    Spirit. Maybe people have a hard time believing because it is a kind of love way beyond
    what we are capable of. God IS love and we strive to love the way we have been called to.
    What a gift to be able to separate the sin from the sinner and to love the sinner! Jesus, I know you have mercy on me a sinner!!!!!
    Thank you for your reflections Brian. Makes me ponder……… Patty McConnell

    • Brian Pusateri on May 9, 2018 at 12:06 am


      Thanks for your beautiful post. May God be with you now and always.


  3. Jim Meeresanm on May 8, 2018 at 12:11 pm

    Brian: Thank you for publishing the 4th Day Letter,I read your wonderful works weekly and some weeks that is the only Christian thing I read. So please keep up the good work. I was sorry to read that you will be moving,I know how much you loved your home in the Cliffs. May God continue to bless Mary Beth and you. Regards Jim

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