Follow The Leader

Follow the leader is a children’s game. First a leader or “head of the line” is chosen. Next all of the children line up behind the leader. The leader then moves around and all the children have to mimic the leader’s actions. If any player fails to follow or do what the leader does, they are out of the game. As Christians our leader is Jesus. When it comes to following our leader are we still in the game?

Can we agree that most, if not all Christians, at some time disagree with some of their respective denomination’s teachings? Such topics like abortion, contraception, divorce, remarriage, cohabiting before marriage, and homosexuality are just some of the teachings that have led to division.

For the purpose of this discussion I have divided these Christians into two groups?

  1. The first group is those who want to be good followers but find themselves at odds with the teaching. Sometimes they are even hurt by these teachings because they or someone they love is living contrary to one of the teachings. They hope that one day the church will change its rules.
  2. An even larger group of Christians are not hurt by the teachings because they simply choose not to follow some of their church’s rules. They themselves decide what makes up “their own” moral code.

Have you found yourself in one of these two groups, and if so, which teaching are you at odds with or take exception to?

Today many Christians prefer that the sermons and writings of their priests, ministers and those in the church’s hierarchy, completely avoid these lightening rod moral issues. They prefer instead to hear silence on these topics. If there is a rule that they have chosen not to follow, listening to the minister preach on it is the last thing they want to do on Sunday morning, and reading articles about these teachings only serves to get them riled up.

When these things happen, the people impacted most likely feel as if the sermon/article is directed at them. They might even feel hurt by the message.  When this happens, some people switch parishes/churches within their same denomination, others seek out a new denomination whose teachings coincide with their views and still some set out to find others who agree with them, and then as a small group, they try to divide their present church.

Acting in the ways described above is not in keeping with a disciple who is “Following the Leader,” rather it is an “I am the Leader” attitude and this view is foreign to the very earliest teachings of the church. If we are to be followers of Christ our lives are to undergo change. 2 Cor. 5:17 tells us that if we are in Christ we must become new and our old ways must become a thing of the past. Ephesians 4:20-24 tells us to put away our former corrupted selves and take on a new spirit created in God.

Father Thomas Berg in his book Hurting In The Church states things this way: “The gift of faith brought about a profound change in the new believer: life, behavior, attitude, outlook, comportment, sexual behavior – everything was affected:” He goes on further to state: “We have, through the centuries, been challenged by the conviction that we ourselves are not the origin of source of the moral values by which to live our lives. Christ and his moral teachings, entrusted to the church, are that origin and source.”

Said differently, we as Christians are called not to follow rules, we are called to follow Christ! Very often we find ourselves without true joy in our lives. John 10:10 tells us that Jesus wants us to have abundant life. He showed us the way.

The next time you choose not to follow one of your church’s rules, you need to ask yourself a deeper question before marching off in search of a new church. Is this much more than a church’s rule; is it rather a way of life that Jesus commissioned the Church to teach us so that we can find lasting joy?

I want to make one very important note here. If in the end, someone chooses to leave the church or if you experience another Christian who sees things differently than you do, they still deserve your Christ-like love. Keep in mind that when there is division in the church the entire church suffers. Healthy, non-contentious dialog, rooted in lots of prayer is what is called for. Trust in Jesus and a love for each other will be the glue that will bind our fractures.

I’ll leave you with this question: Are you FOLLOWING THE LEADER?

Note: My message today was inspired by Fr. Berg’s book. I highly recommend this book for Catholics and non-Catholics alike.

Heavenly Father we are a proud and stubborn people who constantly struggle to die to self and follow the ways of your son Jesus. Please be merciful on us when we fall short. Amen.

Brian Pusateri
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  1. Michael T. Schaefer on June 13, 2017 at 6:00 pm

    Thanks for sharing your gift. You are right on. As a priest I know says often to follow Christ is a radical call. Am I up for it. God bless

    • Brian Pusateri on June 13, 2017 at 6:29 pm

      Amen to that…to be a Christian we must certainly learn to die to self…no doubt that is a life long learning process! Thanks for your post Mike.


  2. Kenneth Novak on June 13, 2017 at 3:25 pm

    Brian, super write up, one of your best ever. I think it is a subject that should be up for more discussion. As a Catholic, I do not want to be too critical of a priest and their homilies, but I find that many of our priests feel pressure not to be too demonstrative in their preaching. And by demonstrative I mean articulating many of our Church’s teachings as they relate to current moral evaluations in society, in movies and in the media in particular. I find myself WANTING to hear more from the Church. From what I see, I feel that Evangelicals are far more outspoken in their opinions on moral developments in our society. So I am finding myself a bit wanting. I realize that more detailed homilies can be somewhat preachy, so to speak, but I do want to hear the Church defending and articulating our Truths as revealed by the Holy Spirit and how Catholics can apply them in our everyday lives. We are swimming upstream as you know with recent societal developments on the moral front.

  3. John Knight on June 13, 2017 at 11:55 am

    Great article, Brian! Reminds me on a quote from G.K. Chesterton: “I don’t need a church to tell me I’m wrong when I know I’m wrong, I need a Church to tell me I’m wrong when I think I’m right”.

    Can’t wait to read Fr. Berg’s book.

    • Brian Pusateri on June 13, 2017 at 2:21 pm

      Thanks John, I hope you enjoy his book as much as I have.


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