Not Like Us

If I were to ask each person reading this one simple question, I wonder how many different answers I would receive. Here is the question: “As a Christian, what does the phrase “those who are not like us” mean to you? Would you first think that it refers to non-Christians? Would it mean Jews, Muslims, Hindus, Buddhists, Atheists, or Agnostics? Perhaps, if you are a Baptist, Catholic, Methodist, or Lutheran the phrase “those who are not like us,” implies everyone who is not a Baptist, Catholic, Methodist or Lutheran. Spiritually speaking, just who are those people who are not like us?

Getting away from the religious or denominations aspect of the question, maybe the term “not like us” means those who live in a different country, or it might mean those who are illegal aliens, or possibly it means those who are of a different sexual orientation. Could it mean those people of a different skin color than us? Is it those who speak a different language? If you are rich maybe it means poor people or if you are poor does it mean rich people?Ever since I began writing the 4thdayletters I have always attempted to maintain a broad ecumenical outreach. Today I want to challenge all of us to honestly answer this question: Am I willing to demonstrate the love of Jesus Christ to others who are in some way different from me?

I think we can all agree that the world is full of broken lives and lost and lonely people. In many cases those who are lost or broken may be different from us in one of the many ways I mentioned above. It is far easier for us to share the love, mercy and forgiveness of Christ with someone we like or someone like us and much more difficult to do so with someone who lives their life radically different than us.

Please read these verses from Paul’s first letter to the Corinthians 12:12

As a body is one though it has many parts, and all the parts of the body, though many, are one body, so also Christ. For in one Spirit we were all baptized into one body, whether Jews or Greeks, slaves or free persons, and we were all given to drink of one Spirit.” “Now the body is not a single part, but many. If a foot should say, “Because I am not a hand I do not belong to the body,” it does not for this reason belong any less to the body. Or if an ear should say, “Because I am not an eye I do not belong to the body,” it does not for this reason belong any less to the body. If the whole body were an eye, where would the hearing be? If the whole body were hearing, where would the sense of smell be? But as it is, God placed the parts, each one of them, in the body as he intended. If they were all one part, where would the body be? But as it is, there are many parts, yet one body. The eye cannot say to the hand, “I do not need you,” nor again the head to the feet, “I do not need you.” Indeed, the parts of the body that seem to be weaker are all the more necessary, and those parts of the body that we consider less honorable we surround with greater honor, and our less presentable parts are treated with greater propriety, whereas our more presentable parts do not need this. But God has so constructed the body as to give greater honor to a part that is without it, so that there may be no division in the body, but that the parts may have the same concern for one another. If [one] part suffers, all the parts suffer with it; if one part is honored, all the parts share its joy.”Yes we really are all of one body.

Pope Francis said recently in a speech: “To raise doubts about faith in those who are not “like us” was a dangerous temptation,” Francis said. “Not only does it block conversion to the faith; it is a perversion of faith!”

This past Sunday I was invited to attend the church service at my daughter-in -law’s Methodist church in Palm Harbor, Florida. She was being officially welcomed into the church as a new member. It was a beautiful service. Clearly it was an entirely different service than what I experience at a Catholic mass. Nonetheless I wasmoved by the joy and deep faith these fellow Christians had in Jesus. I was of a different denomination but we serve the same one God. I was blessed to be there and to experience the warmth of these brothers and sisters in Christ..During the service they sang a song by Casting Crowns called THRIVE.

One of the lyrics in the song really hit me. Here is what it was: “Into Your word we’re digging deep…. To know our Father’s heart ….Into the world we’re reaching out… To show them who You are” Further on in the song were these words:

Fill our hearts and flood our souls
With one desire
Just to know You and
To make You known
We lift Your name on High
Shine like the sun make darkness run and hide
We know we were made for so much more
Than ordinary lives
It’s time for us to more than just survive
We were made to thrive

Are we truly filled with the desire to bring the light of Christ to the darkness that exists in all people? The minister at my daughter-in-laws new church made it clear that their church was striving to serve all people from all backgrounds and all social economic levels and all ages.

In Matthews Gospel we are challenged with this question: Matt 5:46 For if you love those who love you, what recompense will you have? Do not the tax collectors do the same?”Just before this, in verse 5:44, Jesus exhorts us by saying this: “But I say to you, love your enemies, and pray for those who persecute you” The song above called us to THRIVE.

I believe as Christians we will truly thrive when we can honor this difficult challenge from our Lord.When you think about it, everyone is “not like us” and we are not like anyone else. Each of us is a unique person, but at the same time we are each made in God’s image. That goes for everyone, not just Christians. All people were made in God’s image. We may be many parts but we all make up one body. Let us all double down on our commitment to bring the good news of God’s mercy and forgiveness to everyone especially those who are NOT LIKE US. Amen!

Brian Pusateri

Brian Pusateri

Brian is a Christian author and speaker. Brian, a lifelong Catholic, felt his life was forever changed when God spoke to his heart while attending an eight day silent Christian retreat in November of 2011. Soon after that retreat Brian founded 4th Day Letters and Broken Door Ministries. With the God inspired message of mercy and unconditional love that was placed on his heart during that retreat, Brian has been impacting others all over the country and around the world with his weekly letters, his talks, and his all day Christian retreats. Brian’s life was again impacted in a very dramatic way when his eyesight suddenly became permanently impaired due to a diagnosis of Multiple Scleroses (MS) in June of 2014. This health challenge has only served to draw Brian closer to God and bolster the importance of this timely yet ageless message.
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