What Is Your Butterfly Effect?

“We were like two ships passing in the night.” This is a metaphoric expression, often used when two people have a short, chance, passing encounter. Often only a few words are exchanged. The two individuals separate, continue on their way, and often never see each other again. As Christians, should we be concerned about the butterfly effect of our encounters? Absolutely we should! Please read more.

Henry Wadsworth Longfellow wrote the poem The Theologian’s Tale. The following lines come from that poem.

“Ships that pass in the night, and speak each other in passing, only a signal shown, and a distant voice in the darkness; So on the ocean of life, we pass and speak one another, only a look and a voice, then darkness again and a silence.”

A quick literary analysis of the lines in this poem suggests that the two ships left no lasting impact on each other. Is the same true when people meet? When we have random encounters do we leave a lasting impact on each other?  I believe we do.

I stopped to ponder this question this week when I heard the news of the death of someone I had briefly met. I sought help from a young physical trainer in 2017 to find appropriate exercises that might help with my MS. We only met for one hour. Our conversation turned to our faith in Jesus Christ. The hour passed quickly without any discussion of exercise. Just a few days later, he suffered a brain aneurism. We never did get back together. He died this past week. He left a wife and a young child.

Can these short, seemingly chance encounters, leave a lasting impact? If we believe in the butterfly effect then we must believe they can. What exactly is the butterfly effect?

The butterfly effect, is a concept put forward by meteorologist Edward Lorenz in 1960. The idea is that small changes in a big system can cause long lasting complex results. The concept is often described as a butterfly flapping its wings in Brazil and causing a hurricane in Texas. Of course, the single act of the butterfly flapping its wings cannot cause a hurricane.  The point, however, is that small actions can and do leave a lasting impact.

Benjamin Franklin stated the same this this way:

“For the want of a nail the shoe was lost,

For the want of a shoe the horse was lost,

For the want of a horse the rider was lost,

For the want of a rider the battle was lost,

For the want of a battle the kingdom was lost,

And all for the want of a horseshoe-nail.”

I believe the “Butterfly Effect” exists in every aspect of our spiritual life. We all learned as little children that our actions have consequences, and they do. Sin also leaves a lasting butterfly effect. What we do, or fail to do, can leave a major impact on someone else’s life and this impact might be bad or good.  We are often blind to the lasting impact we make.

History teaches us that human actions have consequences. Certain choices, once made, cannot be undone. One person can impact millions. Contrast the lasting impact of Adolf Hitler to that of Mother Teresa. Ignorance about the lasting impact and consequences of our actions does not free us from our responsibility for them. Therefore, our Christian actions should always be intentional. Everything we do should bring others closer to Christ.

We read in John6:9 that a little boy offered his five barley loaves and two fish to Jesus and Jesus used the boy’s small act of kindness to feed a crowd estimated to be over 15,000. But the consequences of his actions did not stop there. Over two thousand years later all Christians know about the miracle of the loaves and fishes. The crowd might have gone hungry that day if the boy had not come forward to give all he had to Jesus. Our knowledge of that story is part of the butterfly effect of his actions.

Let me go back to my encounter with the physical trainer. We enjoyed a deep and meaningful conversation about our love for Jesus during our one meeting. We discussed the possibility of getting together once a month to talk more about faith issues. That opportunity never presented itself. Like a vapor or a puff of smoke he was here and gone. I am glad for the conversation we had. I have no idea how our conversation impacted him over the last year and a half.  It impacted me and that is why I am writing about it today.

Today, and every day for the rest of your life, you will encounter many people. Will your encounters be intentional? Will people know, as you pass them like two ships passing in the night, about your love for Jesus Christ and His love for you? I’ll leave you with this final question. What will the butterfly effect of your life be?  

Heavenly Father, Jesus taught me to love You with all of my heart, soul and mind. He also taught me to love others as myself. In all I do, and with everyone I meet, help me to leave the butterfly effect of your love and mercy. Amen!

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Brian Pusateri

Brian is a Christian author and speaker. Brian, a lifelong Catholic, felt his life was forever changed when God spoke to his heart while attending an eight day silent Christian retreat in November of 2011. Soon after that retreat Brian founded 4th Day Letters and Broken Door Ministries. With the God inspired message of mercy and unconditional love that was placed on his heart during that retreat, Brian has been impacting others all over the country and around the world with his weekly letters, his talks, and his all day Christian retreats. Brian’s life was again impacted in a very dramatic way when his eyesight suddenly became permanently impaired due to a diagnosis of Multiple Scleroses (MS) in June of 2014. This health challenge has only served to draw Brian closer to God and bolster the importance of this timely yet ageless message.
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10 Comments

  1. Avatar Steve Fuld on August 3, 2019 at 3:24 pm

    Hi Brian,
    I read a book called the “Butterfly Effect” by Andy Andrews. Your 4th Day Letter prompted me to pull the book off the shelf and revisit. Thank you for your Butterfly effect.

    • Brian Pusateri Brian Pusateri on August 3, 2019 at 4:57 pm

      Steve

      Thanks for sharing this with everyone. God bless!

      Brian

  2. Avatar Bill Hartley on July 30, 2019 at 8:28 am

    Thanks, Brian! A great reflection as I get ready to head back into the classroom for Year #36! I always try to remember to be kind and watch my words and actions with the kids, and this week’s 4th Day is helpful.

    • Brian Pusateri Brian Pusateri on July 30, 2019 at 8:33 am

      Bill

      You have been blessed to have had an impact on so many young lives. Keep up the good work. Your butterfly effect will be far reaching!

      Brian

  3. Avatar Paul Cronin on July 30, 2019 at 8:02 am

    Brian,

    Thanks for another wonderful and thoughtful reflection. I’m quite certain, knowing you, that your 1 hour encounter with your physical therapist did have a lasting and life-giving effect on him.

    I am currently working at Wake Forest Baptist Medical Center in Winston-Salem and I transport geriatric research patients to the various locations within the hospital campus for their tests. I usually have just a few moments with them and it has been one of the most rewarding things I have ever done …… I have the opportunity every day to share a smile and my faith with those I come into contact with.

    God bless you my friend.

    Paul

    • Brian Pusateri Brian Pusateri on July 30, 2019 at 8:23 am

      Paul

      I have no doubt that those geriatric patients are uplifted by the time you spend with them. Keep up the good work. May God’s blessing be on you and all those you encounter.

      Brian

  4. Avatar Mr. James Corbett on July 30, 2019 at 6:07 am

    Such a powerful thought to carry today.
    Thank you Brian

  5. Avatar Lemoine on July 30, 2019 at 2:20 am

    As I grow older I often reminence of people I met in my life. Yesterday a high school friend came to mind. He was from the other side of the tracks. His family was wealthy, lived in an historic mansion. Tim never showed his wealth, he was a friend to all of us.
    After graduation we went to different schools. I ended up pulling 4 years in the military, he moved to Colorado. So I haven’t seen him since graduation night, 65 years ago. But I remember him so well.
    So I googled his name after all of these years and was sadden to learn he died 16 years ago. He had 9 childten, they now run the company he and his wife founded.
    It seems as though I am looking for all those fleeting ships I have passed by in my lifetime.
    I am so happy the ship powered by the Holy Spirit did not pass me by, rescuing me with His love and drowning in sin.

    • Brian Pusateri Brian Pusateri on July 30, 2019 at 2:53 am

      Lemoine

      What a beautiful tribute to a friend. We are all ships on the voyage of life. Let’s hope we leave a Christian butterfly effect on everyone we pass.

      Thanks for your post.

      Brian

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